First Date Tips: What to avoid on a first date

First dates are a blend of excitement and anticipation – the chance to make a real connection or, at the very least, enjoy a fun night out. But even minor missteps can make or break the opportunity for a second date. Here are five things you should avoid on a first date to make a lasting, positive impression.

Don’t be late

Punctuality sets the tone for the entire date. If you’re running late, make sure to text ahead and apologize when you arrive. Showing up on time demonstrates respect and sets a positive first impression.

Don’t talk about your ex

Avoid bringing up past relationships unless your date specifically asks. Dwelling on an ex makes it seem like you’re not ready to move on. If it does come up, keep it short and focus on your excitement to get to know your date.

Don’t let your phone distract you

Checking your phone or texting during the date signals that you’re disinterested. Put your phone away, make eye contact, and keep your attention fully on your date to make them feel valued.

Don’t talk too much, especially if it’s all about you

Your conversation should flow both ways, so try not to dominate it or make it all about yourself. Show genuine interest by asking questions and listening, which keeps the conversation balanced and engaging. If the person you’re with isn’t talking much, try to ask open-ended questions.

Avoid poor table manners

Good manners go a long way in making a positive impression. Avoid chewing with your mouth open or other habits that might come off as disrespectful or distracting. In addition, be polite and friendly to not just only your date but to everyone around you, especially servers or waiters. Your date will usually judge you based on how you treat others than how you treat them.

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